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Cappy Sheeley Obituary

CAPPY SHEELEY Cappy Sheeley, Waterman Hall of Famer, loving husband, father, and grandfather passed away in the afternoon on July 31, 2023. He went peacefully, surrounded by his family in his childhood home in Makiki. At 81 years old, Cappy succumbed to a three month battle with stage four melanoma cancer. Despite the battle, he maintained his everlasting strength and optimism until the very end. Cappy was a world class sailer, swimmer, surfer, paddler, and lover of all water sports. In his youth, he was guided by a series of mentors. This lead him to truly value mentorship. Throughout his life he was known to quietly mentor others. One of his greatest joys came from seeing others succeed in the face of adversity. He was a huge supporter of programs such as Big Brothers Big Sisters, for which he sponsored a 5k charity run for about 15 years. Cappy was what every man ought to be. He was an incredibly compassionate, loyal, and humble man filled to the brim with integrity and strength. He had an unforgettable laugh. There will never be another Cappy Sheeley. He will be deeply missed. Cappy is survived by his wife Sandii Sheeley, his daughter Jenna (Cody) Schrader and his four grandchildren Wayne, JD, Ruby, and Kaylee, his sister- in-law Karin Nickola (Ron Brunke) and cousin Kathy Cuevas. There will be a paddle out at 10am in Waikiki (outside the surf break Bowls, off the Sheraton) on Sunday, September 24, 2023. A service at Waikiki Yacht Club will follow. Arrangements Provided By: O'ahu Mortuary

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Sep. 17, 2023.

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Richard Upper

February 7, 2024

I hope this note finds you, Sandii, my name is Richard Upper and I grew up in the upstairs unit of 1975 Makiki. My parents where good friends of the Sheeley's back in the Day. My dad -Warren Upper- was a sailor/racer too. I remember a picture of Cap, Jerry and my dad getting ready for a sail. My mom Betty Upper probably taking the photo. Cappy was a full 10 years older than me. I remember him training for the Big O back in the day. Seeing him walking down the path to Mona's. We moved into the Admiral's house _next door- in 1969. I still picked up plumeria leaves for Mona for my allowance. I had hoped to one day make it back to Honolulu to maybe connect with Cappy. I would love to have heard tales of the old days at the club. My mom always wanted me to be an athlete like Cappy. My condolences Sandii. Cappy holds a special place in my memories of Makiki.
Warmly, Richard Upper

Terry Reid Laughridge

November 8, 2023

I´m so sorry to hear of my old friend passing. Everything that´s been written about him is accurate. I´m sorry for all of his family´s loss. Selfishly I´m very sad too. We all seem to lose the best first. Thank you Cappy for always making me feel worthy !

Richard Ednie

September 23, 2023

We all started with an Eltoro at the Waikiki Yacht Club. I enjoyed many years of sailing with Cappy and other club members. Sending a warm Aloha to the family. Richad Ednie, Punahou "59

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