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CONCHITA EMILY PILIALOHA "CONNIE" KINILAU

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Mililani Memorial Park & Mortuary - Makai Chapel

Mililani Memorial Park Road at Ka Uka Blvd.

Waipahu, Hawaii

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Oct. 17, 2025

10:30 a.m.

Borthwick Mortuary

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CONCHITA KINILAU Obituary

CONCHITA CONNIE EMILY PILIALOHA KINILAU 84, of Mililani, Hawaii, a retired leasing agent for GE Capital, passed away peacefully at home on September 24, 2025 surrounded by family. She was born at Ewa Hospital on December 29, 1940 to Ulpiano Paraan and Emily Keau. She is survived by her husband William Van Kinilau; son Bennett Kinilau; daughters Vonnie (Spence) Perkins, Vanessa Pogue; brothers Franklyn and Kenneth (Roberta) and Sister Janyce Dorman; grand- children Kaleo, Keola, and Devan Pogue, Makana (Mihalani) and Kelii Perkins; great-granddaughter Ros?lani Perkins. Predeceased by her parents, brother Wayne Paraan, and beloved cat Hinalei. Visitation 10:30 am on Friday October 17, 2025 at Borthwick Mortuary Makai Chapel.

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Oct. 12, 2025.

Memorial Events
for CONCHITA KINILAU

Oct

17

Visitation

10:30 a.m.

Borthwick Mortuary

1330 Maunakea Street, Honolulu, HI 96817

Oct

17

Service

11:30 a.m.

Borthwick Mortuary

1330 Maunakea Street, Honolulu, HI 96817

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Mililani Memorial Park & Mortuary - Makai Chapel

Mililani Memorial Park Road at Ka Uka Blvd., Waipahu, HI 96797

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