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'Iolani McDonald Ikehara

1953 - 2023

BORN

1953

DIED

2023

'Iolani Ikehara Obituary

'IOLANI MCDONALD IKEHARA 'Iolani Ikehara, loving wife and dedicated mother passed away at home in Monument, Colorado surrounded by family on 2 September 2023. Born on 5 January 1953 to Robert McDonald and Helen Wai'ale'ale in Kaua'i, Hawai'i, 'Iolani was the second of three daughters. After graduating from Kamehameha Schools 1971, she attended college in Oregon where she met future husband Adrian. Following graduation in 1975, she returned to Hawai'i and quickly rose through the ranks at Bank of Hawai'i. Adrian and 'Iolani got married in 1987. She homeschooled four children between 1994 and 2009, after which she took a job as the NAF budget director on Schofield Barracks in Wahiawa, Hawai'i. She later took a job at Fort Carson, Colorado and worked tirelessly as the chief financial officer. She retired in 2020 to spend more time with her grandkids Ikaia and Malulani, especially enjoying their academic prowess and athletic endeavors. She is survived by husband, Adrian; son, Kazden Kauwilanuimakaehaonalani and significant other, Janine, son: Mykenna Kala'iluaokeolaokamauoha and wife: Hatsune, daughter, Marika Kahulaliwaioluikamaluhia and significant other, Malik as well as grandson, Ikaia and granddaughter, Malulani; and son, Zen Kanani'Ikeaikaulupali and fiance, Anna; and sister, Bobette McDonald. Arrangements Provided By: Tri Lakes Funeral

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Sep. 24, 2023.

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Sharon Joy McDonald

September 29, 2023

My first cousin IoLani and I lived and grew up her in Hawaii and me in Alaska .
I remember our letters back and forth between sisters Una , Bobette and IoLani And My Sister Joyce McDonald ( passed away 1997 at 44 of Breast Cancer) and I writing letters from Alaska to Kauai to our McDonald Cousins saying what we got for Christmas.
Of course we got winter gloves , boots etc. for our gifts and our Hawaiian Cousins got swim suits , flip flops etc. for their gifts .
Not long before IoLani got her Brain cancer We called me as we´ve lost touch and oh How excited and happy I was to be in contact with her again . We texted and talked even Faced Timed and made plans for a McDonald Reunion in September 2023 in Washington .
I´m so Blessed that I got to talk with her and I keep Adrian and their families in my heart and prayers

Harryson Gabriel Ma`ila Nicholas

September 26, 2023

Met Dorma as a 7th-grader at our border's check-in at Kamehameha Prep Schools (as it was known in those days) in 1963. I remember her smile and shyness (at that time).
My condolences to you, her Ohana. She will be missed. Aloha Aku, Aloha Mai. A Hui Hou me Ke Aloha

Julie souza

September 25, 2023

So sorry to hear of Lani´s passing.please except my deepest sympathy. Juli Souza a family pass. Hope this gets to Bobbette

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