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for Jocelyn Lum
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Your Sacramento Family
August 23, 2025
Auntie Joc
Thank you for taking care of us every time we stepped foot on your island! We´re so grateful our kids got to experience your aloha spirit last time we visited. Mahalo and love you!
Nancy
August 21, 2025
Dearest Jocelyn,
Our "cousins bond" started with OUR moms . (Bernice and Jane)
For 70plus years, you have been so kind and caring to all of us when anyone visited,
You were the Lum "secretary" and "event planner" and we all loved and admired you.
Long before computers, Wi-Fi, cellphones, you were my " Siri " and human voice GPS.
You would give me directions over the telephone (I would scribble on note paper) and you were so patient when I would say, " can you spell that street name?"
You were more than hospitable , always doing "extra" things for us ( run to airport to greet us with leis ,plan a big dinner , and always dropped off goodies for us to take home , back to airport to see us off , sometimes with Haupia cake!
You just genuinely cared for those around you,
Thank you those memories
We will miss you but you will be in our hearts forever.
Love from your Sacramento cousins ( 3 generations )
Gaylynn Ho
August 19, 2025
Aunt Jo: I miss you very much. You took care of me, always making sure I was OK and bought and made my favorite foods. Whenever I went to Honolulu, you would pick me up and take me to wherever I needed to go to. You would drop me off at the Iolani Palace. Bishop Museum or wherever I wanted to visit
You sent me cards for my birthday and other occasions. You were so good to me, thank you. I love you and know that you now in peace Gaylynn
Larry
August 17, 2025
NtyJo. You showed me how to cook, and care for others! So generous with everything you had. Love you and miss you.
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Lyn
August 17, 2025
A loving caring, a great sister. She loved her Church. Visited the sick and cared and took care of her parents and sister. She is missed by all, especially me, her baby sister
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