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LT. COL. USMC THOMAS J. SMYTH

LT. SMYTH Obituary

LT. COL. USMC (RETIRED) THOMAS J. SMYTH [November 19, 1936] [March 6, 2025] With deep sorrow, we announce the passing of retired Lt. Col., USMC Thomas J. Smyth, who left us peacefully on March 6, 2025 in Honolulu, HI. A passionate runner, and accomplished leader, Tom's life was one of exceptional service, both in the military and in public service. Born November 19, 1936 in Springfield, Illinois to Thomas Joseph and Edna Ellen Smyth, Tom was a distinguished graduate of the Virginia Military Institute's Army ROTC Program in 1958 and was commissioned into the U.S. Marine Corps, embarking on a fulfilling military career that spanned decades. Tom's duty stations included Quantico, VA Monterey, CA as well as internationally - Okinawa and Vietnam (1967-1968). In 1974, Tom was stationed in Hawai'i, residing in Kailua, where he served first at Headquarters, FMFPac and later assumed command of the 1st Radio Battalion at Kaneohe Marine Corps Airstation before retiring from the USMC in 1979. His dedicated service earned him numerous personal decorations, including the Joint Service Commendation Medal and the Navy Commendation Medal with Combat "V." Following his retirement from the USMC, Tom continued his legacy of public service in Hawai'i, working first at PRI, and then moving to the Hawai'i Department of Business, Economic Development, and Tourism (DoBEDT) from 1985 to 2007. His contributions were instrumental in fostering economic growth and helping to shape policies that benefited the state. Tom also had a passion for running that was evident not only through his participation in decades of Honolulu Marathons and local 5K's and triathlons, but also through his active involvement and leadership in the Mid-Pacific Road Runners Club (MPRRC). Tom was preceded in death by parents Thomas and Edna Ellen, and his wife of 20 years, Sue May Lam. Tom is survived by his brother Jon Smyth of Mount Pleasant, SC, his three children Judy Stoots (David), Steven Smyth (Brenda), and Susan Smyth (Phillip Hereso) along with 6 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren. A Military Honors service commemorating his remarkable life will be held 11:30 am HST on April 30, 2025 at the National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made in his memory to his alma mater the Virginia Military Institute, or to a veteran organization or charity of your choice.

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Apr. 13, 2025.

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Pam price

August 25, 2025

My Mother and your Father spent time at the residence. Today, my mom was able to remember his last name. Today, she asked where is Tom. (hundred times). We send our Condolences to your family. I was able to meet and greet with your, during my travel vidit with my Mom. Your Dad´s last words to her was I love you, Grace.
A very unique gentleman. She would walk into his empty room, day/night.
Grieving for her special friend Tom.
Today, I will let her know.

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