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Stephen KinSui Tong

Stephen KinSui Tong obituary

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STEPHEN KINSUI TONG "Stephen `Steve` KinSui Tong was born on November 1, 1940, in Honolulu, Hawaii. He was the youngest of three children. His mother managed Frito Lay Corp. and was known for hosting dinners for servicemen. His father, a sign painter and talented musician, had work displayed throughout downtown Honolulu. In elementary school, he was part of the Hawaii's first English Standard school System, While attending Roosevelt High School, he was active in five sports and a member of the Inter School Christian Fellowship. While at the University of Hawaii, where he served as fraternity president, sang in a barbershop quartet, and participated in six sports. He then attended the University of Oregon studying pre-med. Steve then attended Boston Law School, eventually changing his major to business. However, since he was not a fan of snow, he finished his MBA at the University of Hawaii. Steve held several positions before becoming Personnel Manager for the Department of Army Civil Service. He was sent to Germany served six years as Personnel Director to both Americans and Germans, becoming fluent in German. While in Germany, he traveled to the Far East and four other countries including East Germany. After returning to Hawaii, still with the Federal Government, he worked at Ft. Shafter. He retired after 26 years with the Federal Government where he received numerous awards. After his retirement, he and his wife Norma moved to Oregon. He served as Personnel Manager at the DMV Headquarters in Salem, retiring in 2013. While there, He authored a training manual that remains in use today. Steve will be remembered for his service, dedication, and the joy he brought to those around him. He is survived by his wife, Norma 6 children, 14 grandchildren, and 9 great grandchildren. Aloha a hui hou and e malama pono!"

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Oct. 19, 2025.

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