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ALEXANDER KALAHIKIOLA KALOI

ALEXANDER KALAHIKIOLA KALOI obituary

ALEXANDER KALOI Obituary

ALEXANDER KALAHIKIOLA KALOI Our beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend to many passed away on June 4, 2023 from a heart attack. He loved his hometown of Wahiawa where he married his high school sweetheart Jan and lived there his entire life. He graduated from Leilehua High School in 1973 where he excelled in various sports, especially football. He went on to play at the University of Hawaii and became their starting quarterback for 3 years. He then became a dentist and opened the Waianae Family Dental Office. He practiced there for 38 years with his dedicated, devoted, and loving staff who he considered part of our family. He loved working in the Waianae community and considered it his second home. His hobbies included fishing, golfing, and playing poker, where he met many of his closest friends. He also loved coaching his 3 daughters in tennis from childhood to their collegiate years. More recently, he could be spotted at various fields and courts across the island... watching and coaching his grandchildren in football, tennis, baseball, and soccer. He was the heart of his family, which included his wife (Jan), 3 daughters Janalle Kaloi-Chen (Erich), Kimi Kaloi (Rachel), Heidi Kaloi-McCoy (Jeffrey Brian), 8 grandchildren (Aleki, Kainalu, Kumakani, Cedric, Nahi'ena, Kia'i, Aria, and Paliuli), his brother Oliver Kaloi (Gini), his sister-in-law's Amy Olayon (Greg), Marnie Young, and Beverly Lau, and many nieces and nephews. In his loving memory, services will held at Mililani Memorial Park & Mortuary on Sunday August 6, 2023 (Visitation from 4-6 pm and service from 6-8 pm). In lieu of gifts, the family asks that any contributions be sent to their fund at Hawaii Community Foundation in memory of him. Checks should be payable to "Hawai'i Community Foundation" with a note "Alexander Kaloi Ohana Charitable Fund" in the memo section or cover letter, and mail to Hawai'i Community Foundation, 827 Fort Street Mall, Honolulu, HI 96813-4317. Gifts may also be made online: https://www.hawaiicommunityfoundation.org/give, Search for " Alexander Kaloi Ohana Charitable Fund".

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Jul. 23, 2023.

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Ouida Vincent-Harvest

July 28, 2023

Aloha Jan and the entire Kaloi ohana,
I´m so sorry for your loss. I knew Alex since we were seven years old; we met in second grade at Our Lady of Sorrows school, then onto LHS and kind of loss touch as he moved onto UH and I went to Chaminade. Every once in awhile we´d bump into each other in Wahiawa. Alex was always a very good, kind person and lived Aloha. To his grandchildren, your grandpa was the best and loved you very much. Please take care of yourselves during this difficult time. Alex will truly be missed.

Susan Komori Crowell

July 23, 2023

Hi Jan,
This is Susan Komori Crowell. I am so very sorry for your loss. Alex will be missed not only in Wahiawa and Waianae but across the state of Hawaii. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. May the many wonderful memories you have of a lifetime spent with Alex ease your heart.
Aloha,
Susan

Ken Johnson

July 23, 2023

My deepest condolences to Jan and the ohana. I knew both Alex and Jan from our days at Leilehua High School in Wahiawa. He was perhaps the greatest athlete the "Mighty Mules" ever had. I was co-chairman of the Homecoming Committee our senior year and Jan was our Homecoming Queen. I was so happy when I heard that Alex had married her. They were the "Campus Couple". Many memories of Alex on the football field. He was an extraordinary athlete. May rest in peace and aloha. May the Lord bless and hold him in his arms. I know he is on the heavenly football field. Jan you and the ohana are in my prayers and thoughts during this time of sadness. God bless you.

Wesley Nakahara

July 23, 2023

My Deepest Condolences to Jan and Family for your loss of one the most outstanding and nicest person I ever met! May ALEX rest in Aloha and Peace.

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