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Roland F.S. Tam M.D. obituary

Roland Tam Obituary

ROLAND F.S. TAM, M.D. Roland F.S. Tam, M.D., 79, passed away on December 31, 2025. He was born in Honolulu and graduated from Kalani High School. He attended the University of Hawaii, where he was a member of the Tu Chiang Sheh fraternity, and went on to attend the University of Washington School of Medicine. Specializing in ear, nose, and throat and facial plastic surgery, he opened his practice at St. Francis Medical Center in Liliha in 1980, where he treated thousands of patients until retiring in 2024. He was elected President of the Hawaii Society of Otolaryngology and Head & Neck Surgery in 1986, and successfully carried out the first computer image-guided sinus surgery in Hawaii in 1999. He enjoyed boogie boarding at Makapuu and Waikiki Walls, fishing, playing poker, and listening to jazz music, but his principal passion was U.H. sports. Faithfully attending nearly every U.H. football, basketball, and volleyball game for decades, he could often be spotted in the student section wearing his signature vintage Rainbows jersey. He is survived by his wife of 38 years, Kathleen Dos Santos-Tam, and his three sons Tyler (Andrew) Dos Santos-Tam, Travis Dos Santos-Tam, and Trenton (Julie) Dos Santos-Tam. Roland is also survived by brothers Ivan (Anne) and Alan, and was preceded in death by his father William K.I. Tam and mother Lydia S.Y. Chang. Services will be held on Saturday, February 7 at St. Peter's Episcopal Church on Queen Emma Street in Downtown Honolulu. Visitation 10:00am. Services 11:00am. Reception to follow.

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Published by Star-Advertiser on Jan. 25, 2026.

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Mike Morita

February 20, 2026

To my friend Kathleen, former Lanakila basketball player Trenton and the rest of the Tam ohana,
My deepest condolences to you all. I always admired Dr Tam for his enthusiasm for UH sports and his energy he had in his work. I am sure it was fueled by his passion for the things he loved.
Trenton, I will never forget the play we set up for the last shot of the game to win the game. The player that was supposed to make the shot was really unsure of himself. Trenton, you then spoke up, and said "I can make it". So we ran the play for you and you made the shot for the win!
Your dad´s bloodline is strong and his fruits remain...
Much love to you all, as Dr Tam always treated me more than a patient but as a friend as well.
May God bless you all

Mike Morita

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Sisters of St. Francis

February 3, 2026

To Kathy and Family: Prayer for Dr. Tam--Thank you for your years of dedicated service to our St. Francis patients. Your kindnesses and generosity to those most in need will be remembered. May God reward you for your openness of heart in serving those in need. Enjoy the blessings of the heavenly kingdom!

Harvey Lee

January 25, 2026

Very sad to learn of Roland´s passing. He was my classmate from Kaimuki Intermediate, Kalani High.

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